Cleric Enoch Adeboye has stirred discussion after sharing his views on qualities he believes are important in a potential spouse.
Speaking during a sermon, he advised men to consider practical attributes such as cooking skills and hospitality when choosing a partner, suggesting that these traits play a significant role in building a stable home.
He also emphasized the importance of intelligence and character, referencing biblical guidance in his remarks.
According to him, if a lady do not possess these attributes, the man shouldn’t bother marrying, or else he is headed for trouble.
His words in part …
“Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook. We’re talking of excellent counsel. Only me can tell you these things. If she can’t cook, even if a prophet says this is your wife. Say thank you, keep her. Because if she can’t cook, if she can’t be hospitable, you’re heading for trouble. The Bible made it clear that your wife must be someone who is intelligent and hospitable…”
His statement has generated mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with his perspective on traditional roles in marriage, while others argue for a more modern and flexible approach to partnerships.
Watch him speak below …
“Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook” — Pastor Adeboye advises pic.twitter.com/QOC1NmZnAu
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