Nigerian life coach, Solomon Buchi has said that pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum highlight the importance of marrying a kind man.
The father of one stated this in a Facebook post on Wednesday, March 4 while addressing women who are attracted to what he described as “rizz and playboy aura”
According to him, these important periods in a woman’s life is when men show their truest colours.
He advised women to bear in mind that they are not only choosing husbands but also fathers of their future children; men who will love them through the physical and emotional changes during pregnancy and motherhood.
“When you’re choosing a husband, remember that you’re choosing the man who’ll be the father of your kids; the man who’ll love you through the pregnancy fatigue, big nose, mouth odour; the man who’ll stand by you during childbirth; the man who will love you through the perineal tears, stretch marks and mom bod,” he wrote.
“Some of you are attracted to “rizz” and playboy aura, and I swear that you will never know the mistake you’ve made until pregnancy and postpartum—that’s when men show their truest colours. Choose in the spirit or PERISH.”
