A woman has gone on Facebook to weigh in on the conversation about fathers s£xu@lly @bus!ng their daughters.
Following the @rr3st of a father in Enugu state for def!l!ng his two daughters, aged 2 and 5, conversations about who children are safe to be left with have sprung up.
Some w@rned mothers to avoid letting fathers b@the their daughters.
However, a woman on Facebook known as Ada Naija said a father b@thing his daughter does not turn men into p3d0ph!les.
She went on to share how her dad was personally involved in her life and upbringing, yet he never acted inappropriately around her.
She wrote: “If you zoom my face, where my hand is not touching, you’ll see a small sc@r that looks like a birthmark.
“It’s a scr@tch from my daddy’s nails where he was scrubb!ng my face like back of pot.
“I don’t remember the age I was, but we had just moved into the first house they built so I’m thinking I’ve entered primary school or I was in nursery 3.
“Yes, my dad used to bath us while my mum made breakfast, and the only reason i h@ted it was because he was not gentle while bathing me like my mum.
“The first time I had my period, I had the w0rst possible cramps so I removed all my clothes and lay on the floor n@ked, around 2am, because i was hoping the cold tiles will reduce the p@!n, that was how my dad found me n@ked and went to call my mum.
“Because he occasionally comes to our rooms to check us and pray for us.
“I remember going into their apartment (that’s what we call my parents wing) and my mum handed me tissue to wipe down there when I told her my whole body was p@in!ng me, and when she saw bl00d, she gave me one oversize pad that didnt have wings.
“I remember my mum scolding me several times to stop telling my dad to buy me pad, ibuprofen and chocolate during my peri0d because period is a woman’s thing and is that how I’ll be behaving when I’m married?
“I’ve been in several vulner@ble situations around my dad and he never took advantage of me.
“It is not bathing children that turns males into ped0ph!l3s.”
