Veteran Nollywood actress Chinyere Wilfred expresses worries about the rising number of broken homes and the difficulties parents face in raising children in the digital era.
In an exclusive chat with The Nation, the actress, who has enjoyed over 30 years of marriage, pointed to the decline of traditional values and the growing impact of social media as key factors contributing to marital instability.
She said …
“Today’s parents are Gen Z. Back in the day, our parents had boundaries
“What we see today is shocking. People get married, you buy aso ebi, and before you blink, boom, they’re divorced. Marriage isn’t a party dress you wear and throw away.”
Addressing the issue of modern parenting, the actress stated the need to strike a balance between providing guidance and allowing freedom.
She noted that many African mothers often mistake strict discipline for expressions of love, which can lead to misunderstandings in the parent-child relationship.
The actress said …
“While shooting Sands of Time, I saw myself in that character. I didn’t realise I was overreacting with my children until I watched the playback. It hit me, I was being too controlling. I got home and mellowed down, especially with my son. Even now, as a graduate, he still can’t sleep out. I thought I was protecting them, but I was actually overprotecting
“We think we’re loving our children, but sometimes, we’re stifling them. Sands of Time is more than a series, it’s a conversation starter. It teaches us to listen more, to trust more, and to breathe.
“Parenting has become more complex, but the key is balance between guidance and freedom, discipline and understanding.”
