A Ghanaian man, Alhaji Ali Kamal, has shared a message he received from a woman who lamented that her husband is emotionally distant.
The woman sent the message after Kamal posted a video of him dancing with his first wife.
According to the woman, she’s been married for 11 years but has never danced with her husband or had meaningful conversations with him and cant even go close to him unless he wants s3x.
Reacting to the message, Kamal advised couples not to avoid comparing their marriage to others as social media often presents curated and idealised versions of relationships.
“Hmmm just opened my messenger and saw this… Please oooo, don’t use other people lifestyle to read your own… I have challenge posting my wives, this are 1 of the reasons. Some women will see and begin fighting their husbands, no no. There is no perfect marriage, even my wives are managing me.
Myself I know am not correct,” he wrote.
“Don’t use social media to run your home. Every man is different. Your husband maybe doing something good, maybe I have never done some to my wives b4. The guys tooo, don’t be tooo hard, open yourself soo your wives can talk freely… Don’t seee de video of de dance moves and assume I don’t have problems. We fight more than you people, just that our fight don’t go out like that cos they know how to cool me down. I maybe good in some aspects but I have my boni sides as well. Let’s pray for longer life and good health.”
