Prominent Nigerian dancer, Kaffy laments the challenges she faces in her personal life following her divorce.
Speaking candidly during a recent discussion, the 45-year-old entertainer disclosed that many men shy away from marrying her because she is a single mother of two.
She criticized the societal stigma attached to divorced women, questioning why people assume a woman with children is less desirable, even though statistics show that many marriages end in separation.
Kaffy further argued that divorced individuals who have worked on themselves may, in fact, be better partners than unmarried people.
She highlighted that over 70% of marriages eventually fail, stressing that real love should bring peace and security rather than anxiety.
Her words …
“I’ve had somebody tell me because I’m a single mother, I can’t even think about dating me because I have two children.
99% of the people that criticize me about my marriage are either not married today or have left their marriages. What makes you think that a woman that has been divorced is not even the better candidate If she has worked on herself, what is the guarantee that the two single people today are not both going to be divorced people tomorrow?
Because why are people feeling like, I need to marry him fresh and I need to marry her fresh. But both of you are going into the same data that the world has computed for you. There are over 70% of marriages crashed. You are part of the 70%. There’s just so many stuff. Do you know that a lot of butterfly in the tummy is a trauma response? Real love brings peace, not butterflies. Real love is not supposed to make you anxious. You shouldn’t be with… I can imagine Daddy Freeze now, as he’s here now, and he’s thinking about what taste buds is doing in the house. He’s at peace. I’m still healing from those anxious feelings because of the moment I feel like I killed this I’m like, why would you do this to me? I’m 45, but I’ve spent the last 10 years of my adult life trying to fix it. My children were looking at us and I’m like, go. If you have to leave. Oh, really? Oh, yeah. You think I’m irresponsible?
I know how responsible I am as a woman. I don’t sleep around. I don’t do casual stuff. I heard even the, after I used him, his youth, after I used him to collect children, my IVF champion, because I don’t understand…”
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‘Nobody wants to marry me cos I am a single mother of two’ – Kaffy pic.twitter.com/itTbltUqlt
— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) August 17, 2025
